Lorita “Kay” Gilbert passed away May 4, 2025. Kay was born on Nov. 5, 1948, to Richard Clayton and Nancy Bell Landrum. Throughout her life, Kay wore many hats with different employers, often juggling multiple jobs to provide for her family. She retired in 2009, from TDK having built a life defined by resilience and grit. She experienced love in many forms throughout her life. She was previously married to Harold Dwayne Troxel and Gary Wayne Gilbert, and later shared over 25 years of companionship and love with Roy Oliver “Jim” Buckmaster, who preceded her in death.
She is survived by her children: Wytonna Lynn Crider of the home; Don Wayne Troxel and wife Christine of Shawnee; Jason Clayton Gilbert and wife Amy of Dale; and Jamie Dale Gilbert of Shawnee. Her legacy continues through eight grandchildren, numerous great-grandchildren, and a host of nieces and nephews; Her siblings: Wanda Mae Krueger of Shawnee; Deloris June Goodnight of Wister; Cherita Ann Landry and husband Kenneth of Shawnee; and Rickey Leon Landrum and wife Susan of Shawnee.
In addition to her parents, spouses, and son Lenoard, Kay is preceded in death by her grandsons Bobby Joe Crider and Ethan Scott Troxel, and her niece Bridget Cheri Harvey.
A memorial service will be held on May 13, 2025, 4 pm, at AE Funeral Services Chapel, 603 W. Independence St., Shawnee, OK.
